Domcon LA 6/3 to 6/9 * Learn Play Submit Spoil

DomCon LA is almost here — the crown jewel of kink conventions and the world’s largest gathering of professional and lifestyle Dominants. This isn’t just another event; it’s a pilgrimage for seasoned Dommes, curious newcomers, loyal subs, and devoted fetishists from all over the world.

Twice a year, DomCon brings its dazzling duality to life — once in New Orleans, once in the City of Angels. Each event is packed with chances to learn, play, connect, and revel in the glorious diversity of the kink community.

There are immersive workshops for Baby Dommes and womxn just stepping into the industry. Skill-building classes for those ready to level up. And of course, the infamous play parties — where Dominants and submissives come together to serve, seduce, perform, and delight. Add in jaw-dropping performances, lively socials, and a vendor hall that will tempt even the most disciplined wallet, and you’ve got a weekend that’s as indulgent as it is unforgettable.

I’ll be kicking off the Industry Only track with a deep, personal discussion on The Importance of Mentoring. It’s a continuation of the class I led at DomCon New Orleans — where the room was packed with fresh-faced Dommes, not just eager to learn, but ready to be mentored on the spot.

That moment stuck with Me. Since then, I’ve taken time to reflect, to sharpen My insights, and to get even clearer on what real mentorship looks like in today's world — and why it matters more than ever.

When I was starting out, someone challenged Me. Not My mentor — but Her best friend. She looked Me in the eye and asked, Why are you doing this? Not how. Not what. Why. It wasn’t an interrogation. It was an initiation. And it shaped everything that came next.

We’re still close friends today — and fun fact: she designed My ad for this year’s event booklet.

On Friday afternoon, I’ll be hosting The Pro Domme Social — a gathering with a lavish light lunch, curated swag, and a team of semi-graceful sissies floating around, refilling drinks and whisking away trash like the obedient dears they are.

That evening, I’ll be at the play party — and yes, I already have a scene negotiated with someone very special. (No spoilers, but it’s going to be memorable.

You'll likely catch Me sauntering around Saturday and Sunday's play parties, as well, on the prowl for fresh prey. 

And of course, I’ll be patrolling the vendor hall with an eye out for discerning paypigs. If you’re good at carrying bags, walking a respectful step behind Me, and flipping open that wallet before I even have to ask… come find Me. I promise I’ll put you to good use.

Present Yourself and Surrender to My Desires

Happy Saturday, sinners.

I bet you've been wondering where I've been. I was in Seattle for a long weekend to take in some wonderfully perverse art at the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, reconnect with old friends, ferry hop, play, eat, laugh, and more. It was just what I needed.

Came home last Sunday and have been engaged in helping a dear friend with something extremely important. And I've also had another situation arise that requires My full attention. So, I've made the difficult decision to postpone My European trip next week.

This means I am available for sessions in The City of Salt. 
Present yourself, drop to your knees, and crawl to Me. 
I hold the key to unlock your kinkiest fantasies.

Come spend some quality time with Yours Truly at The Mini Manor.
Surrender to My desires by allowing Me to use you, shape you, and show you what it takes to bring this sadistic Seductress a smile.

Worship Me. A highly skilled, experienced sophisticated, mature Dominant with a wicked sense of humor who loves to teach submissives of all genders how to become the best they can be.

If you wish to be considered, you may send a polite introductory email to request an Application: msjulie@juliespanks.com
If you've had the honor of serving Me in the past, you may ring during My phone hours. You're also welcome to send your request via email.

What are you waiting for? Come to Me.

Seattle Bound * SLC Sessions 5/5 to 5/15

I'm off to The Emerald City for a long weekend of entertainment, seafood, catching up with good friends, photoshoots, spa time, and SEAF. My bags are bulging and My schedule is full. If you were hoping to serve Me, you waited too long. 

For those attending SEAF, the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, please do say hello if you happen to see Me. I will be there on Friday evening as well as Saturday afternoon.

If you send an email over the weekend, you can expect a response when I return to My office. 

Until then, stay out of trouble.
That's an order.

Bondage Sessions in SLC * Seattle 5/1 to 5/4

Getting ready for a session, so this will be quick. I still have yet to set up for this elaborate bondage scene with a curious newbie who fancies himself an enthusiast. We'll see how well he does tonight.

There is a room in My dungeon where the ceiling is fitted with unistrut featuring adjustable, forged points that offer countless tying opportunities. Don't take a chance with two simple screws installed improperly. Come fly the safest way, high or low, with a pro.

What type of bondage do you fantasize about? So many options - rope, chain, ribbon, toothfloss, leather belts, a sleepsac, vet wrap, a telephone cord, strict metal spreaders, or barbed wire, packing wrap, locking leather restraints, or perhaps a straightjacket...

My personal collection could have us busy for nights on end.

I am available tomorrow evening (Sunday), Tuesday day and evening, and Wednesday evening. If you are new-to-Me and would like to request My time and attention, you will send Me an email to request an Application: msjulie@juliespanks.com

If you've had the honor of serving Me already, you may send your specific request via email or attempt to reach Me during My phone hours. If you get My voicemail, hang up and ring again shortly thereafter. For privacy purposes, I never call clients.

Thursday I'm headed to Seattle for the weekend to indulge in some adult fun, delicious food, and debauchery. I'm attending SEAF, the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, as a dear photographer friend, Michele Serchuk, had a photo of Me accepted to the show. She lives in New York City and I cherish time with her. So when I heard the news, I knew she had to be there with Me. And she's bringing her equipment so we can do some shoots around the grit and beauty of Seattle.

I have a few dining reservations, a museum or two to take in, a bit of local shopping, one sexy burlesque show, and the festival, of course. 

You will find Me back in The City of Salt and available for sessions on Monday, May 5th. Note: I treasure those who schedule in advance giving Me some time to plot your demise. *wink*

Approach on our knees.

Sessions Available This Week & My Dirty Hands

It's Sunday, or The Lards Day, as they say here is Utah. And a rare one for Me as I am usually being entertained by a slutty submissive.

If you don't know, I do not discriminate as to what days of the week I will consider sessions. That is simply because I like to play every day of the week. Most especially on Sundays. And I own a luxurious private dungeon space that is available to Me whenever I wish.

The short drive from My home to My dungeon takes Me down North Temple street, past the church office building, the 21,00 square foot convention center, and the iconic Mormon Temple. The streets on Sundays are busy with folks going to church services and studies. Meanwhile, I'm on My way to defile and torture someone mercilessly. 

Yesterday, I had a photoshoot at the dungeon with a submissive girl currently in a protection collar of Mine. If you're wondering, a protection collar is a tool to help keep her safe as she begins to explore and navigate the world of BDSM and the lifestyle community.

Can you guess where I hid the eggs?

This girl is learning under Me, gaining valuable play experience, getting her questions answered, understanding how to vet potential play partners, better negotiate satisfying play scenes, and look out for her own general safety. And, if for whatever reason, she doesn't feel comfortable about a situation, at any time she has an easy out and can send them to Me for My expressed permission.

Today, I'm taking advantage of the glorious weather and getting My hands dirty in the lower garden and the pots surrounding My pool. It just happens to be a perfect day to do all sorts of gardening. #iykyk

I am available for sessions this week and I'm very much looking forward to training some sissy sluts, torturing willing masochists, undercover butt sluts, spankos, and brand newbies. Don't be shy.
I will take very, very good care of you.

If you would like to be considered, you will send an email to request an Application For Service - msjulie@juliespanks.com

Or ring during My phone hours. Absolutely no texting.
Note: I am out of town May 1st thru May 4th & 5/15 thru 5/28
So plan accordingly.

Update: the luggage I am pining for now has a coupon bringing the price down lower on a quality set that should last longer the rest.

Indulge Me. Click here.

April Sessions in Salt Lake City With Yours Truly

I'm back in the driver's seat after a fantastic trip to My former hometown of Portland. I enjoyed reconnecting with a few of My steadfast submissives and I can hardly wait to plan My next visit.

If you're in Portland and interested in discussing a potential session in the future, you may send Me an email and I'll keep you in the loop.

Currently, sessions are available in Salt Lake City for the remainder of April. If you would like to be considered, I welcome you to send an email and request an Application For Service. Or attempt to reach Me by phone during My phone hours. If you get My voicemail, simply hang up and try again another time. For privacy purposes, I do not call clients, ever. And absolutely no texting as I find it terribly informal.

May is a busy month filled with lots of travel so be prepared to present that ass in the next two weeks. Mistress wants to use you, tease you, abuse you, edge you, torment you, bite you, tie you up, tie you down, bend you over, examine you, defile you, test you, stretch you, grope you, whisper in your ear, scratch you with My nails, fill your holes, and much more I probably should not type here.

What are you waiting for?

Portland Thru Sunday * April Sessions in SLC

Bags and schedule packed for My long weekend in Portland. I'll be flying in the morning with a full day of debauchery from the moment the wheels hit the ground to whatever time I finally rest My head.

I'll be picked up from the airport by one of My most loyal and dedicated submissives, taken out to a delectable and protein-packed lunch, followed by shopping in a popular, upscale department store.

On our way to the dungeon for an evening of full Femdom immersion, we'll hit one of My favorite adult stores to choose a slutty outfit for My sub, more lube, and maybe a new dick.

No adult store visit in Portland would be complete without a cruise to the back of the repository, where all of the glory holes live. It's one of the things I miss the most about Portland and I intend on taking full advantage when I'm in town.

If you didn't get the opportunity to schedule with Me this time, you'll want to send your request immediately upon announcement, if not sooner. Or you'll be playing with yourself. My schedule fills rapidly. 

For those playing the home game, My pegging class last Friday was spectacular and so much fun. The audience was fully engaged and it took .02 seconds for Me to locate the p-spots on both stunt bottoms. Had them dribbling before they knew what was happening. *wink*

If you'd like to potentially schedule a session in Salt Lake City during the month of April, you may send Me a polite email to request an Application: msjulie@juliespanks.com

P.S. I'm still in need of some new luggage before May. Click here for My wishlist. You'll find the set at the top of list. I wonder what would happen to the thoughtful slave who decided to surprise Me....