REQUIRED READING: Pro BDSM Is A Luxury Sport

I'm going to say that again. And I say again rather than one more time as it's not the first time I have blogged on this subject and it will most likely not be the last time I have to repeat these words.

Professional Domination is a luxury sport. 

Much like skiing, snowboarding, bobsledding, sailing, golf, scuba diving, and race car driving. I could go on but I trust you get the gist.

When one wants to engage in a lavish, and perhaps dangerous activity, one does research in advance. You'd be looking for a reputable teacher that has good safety reviews, a high level of experience in the field, at a cost that is comfortable for you.

Sometimes the price of something is beyond your budget and you move on to find your next best fit which is something that I, personally, cannot recommend. You get what you pay for.

The service that I offer is extravagant and not for everybody. I have excellent reviews and client retention, safety and privacy are of utmost concern, I'm an expert in My field, and I'm flat-out expensive.

I am a quality-over-quantity player. 

It's My desire to connect with those who do not bat an eyelash at My tribute amount or, better yet, don't ask at all. I want to play with those who have extra cash, slush funds, and funny money that won't be missed. Those who pine to tithe monthly to a Goddess they are privileged to serve. I will never be the reason someone is not able to pay their rent, electric bill, buy food, or pay child support. This is the reason I have not, nor will I ever accepted credit cards.

There are women just entering this field who reside in bigger cities demanding more than what I request as a tribute. And I have almost 22 years experience. I'm a big fish in a very small pond here in Salt Lake City. I'll also mention that I own the only dedicated, private, and fully-equipped professional dungeon play space in the valley.

I'm a mature and sophisticated woman with high expectations. I like nice things, first class travel, fine dining, upscale shopping, and the like. I know My worth and I will never settle for less.

If I am too much for you, please go find less and leave Me alone.
I'd rather be conditioning My whips than lowering My standards.

If you are a well-heeled, polite, and submissive human looking for a classy, refined, and seductive Mistress, look no further. Send Me an email to request an Application: msjulie@juliespanks.com

Sessions are available once you pass My screening process.

You will treat Me as your Queen. Or not at all.

PSA To Those Who Wish To Submit To Me

Hello there. Perhaps we've already met. Lucky you. If you are currently in My good graces, then this post is not for you. 

This announcement goes out to those of you who have yet to serve Me, especially the newbies, wanton sluts, and time-wasting wankers. 

If you are fortunate enough to make it through My screening process and are offered a session on My busy schedule, it is in your best interest to follow through. I understand meeting a Mistress for the first time can be daunting. But My time is not to be wasted. 

Being nervous is normal. Working through uncomfortable experiences is where the growth happens. Whether it's showing up for your first or third session, enduring a strenuous position, or following My explicit directions - I'll see that you become the best sub-human you can be.

Seriously, if I had a dime for every email received the night prior stating a family member is in the hospital, I wouldn't be typing this.

So, if you're new here, I've been a kinky explorer My entire adult life, a Professional Mistress and dungeon owner for almost 22 years. I've also been teaching kink and BDSM for 18 years. In My time, I have owned slaves, served on boards of BDSM organizations, and helped organize large international conventions with a focus on education. This is not a day job for Me. It is My lifestyle.

I'm a mature, sexy, sophisticated, experienced, and educated Woman who knows exactly what she wants. If you wish to submit to Me, you will meet Me on My level, or not at all.

I do this for the consensual power imbalance. The foundation of this dynamic is mutual consent, trust, and respect. Show Me disrespect, and you will be permanently dismissed.  You see, I wish to play with those that present themselves authentically and are ready to commit to growth and self exploration with Me as your accomplished guide. 

I do not have capacity, time, or space for individuals who don't appreciate Me, My time, My sternly seductive style of training, expertise, experience level, and My energy. Moving forward, I'll be even more selective about those I allow in My presence. And go back to collecting deposits for sessions. I've said here many times before, you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

I invite you to impress Me. 

CA: $JulieSpanks
Click here for My Amazon wishlist.

My Hump Day Sissies * Weekend Recap

Of course, it's Hump Day. A favorite day to submit for a few of My very good pets who have earned the privilege over time of receiving My cock. They have been trained to have a deeper understanding of what it is about pegging that pleases Me. Because it's All About Me. And don't you ever forget it.

I dressed up My slutty sissy in some pantyhose and a satin teddy. Adorned her with a blonde wig, rosy cheeks, and some red lipstick. Then I proceeded to make Myself comfortable on the leather couch by the warm fireplace and ordered her onto the floor. I spread My legs and pulled her head in close. 

As I held her by the back of the head, she got busy doing what she does best - sucking My cock. After a while, I ordered her to stand while I donned My thigh strap. She straddled My leg and lowered herself down. All the way down, swallowing it up one inch at a time.

The next 20 minutes were a blur. 

My weekend recap: two sublime sessions and a yummy, intimate play party at The Mini Manor on Saturday night. Definitely a time of indulgence and depravity. And I'm here for more.

This is the one that didn't escape the play party. 

Forced to sleep in shackles and chains, locked in the cage.

I'm available for sessions exclusively at The Mini Manor, My private dungeon play space. And the only professional dungeon in the Valley.

My contact information is on the right.
What are you waiting for?

My Bloody Valentine * Sessions Available

Happy Valentines Day, if you celebrate.

I'm hot, sweaty, and lounging about the dungeon in a delicious, black, silk robe. Gifted by My sweet pet that I just released after an exquisite session. He arrived on time with a dozen, long-stemmed roses in one hand. And an elegantly wrapped box in the other hand.

I know how much he treasures quality time over My knee and that's exactly where he found himself as our session began. Once he was nicely warmed, I led him down the hallway to execute more of My brutal affection. His body, My choice.

I applied a set of leather restraints to his ankles and wrists. Bound him, arms up with a spreader bar between his legs. Then I took the liberty of exercising My favorite flogger for a bit before making fine use of the roses. 

I beat him with the flowers.

When I was done, the rug was littered with petals, leaves, thorns, and stems. It was intoxicating, for both of us. Once freed from his bondage, he cleaned up the chaos. With special directions to collect the petals for My bedtime bath. 

My peds were tired and he gives exceptional foot massages.
He does know how to keep My attention.

The rest of My weekend is booked. I have a session tomorrow afternoon with the lovely slut that visited Me last month. And an intimate social and play party in the evening. Sunday is filled with meetings and consultations. 

If you'd like to submit to Me, email: msjulie@juliespanks.com  
Sessions available next week and beyond.

Back in the Saddle * SLC Sessions Available

I am thrilled to be back in the dungeon after a phenomenal trip.
If you happen to follow Me on social media, you were privy to some of My vacations pics. If not, here's a teaser.

It's so good to be back in the dungeon after such a relaxing and sensational trip. I am revved up and ready to play, torment, tease, deny, torture, tickle, pinch, grab, slap, spank, whip, flog, edge and more you. Come to Me while the vibes are still vibing, I'm in a fantastic mood, and My tan is poppin'. 

If you have have the privilege of serving Me already, you may ring Me during My phone hours. Or send Me an email with your humble request as to when you'd like to present yourself.

If you are new-to-Me, you may send an email to request an Application: msjulie@juliespanks.com

Vacation Thru 2/6 * Personal Sub Opportunities

Bon Voyage, My pets.

I'm taking a little vacation south of the border.
Like, way south. As in, South America. I'll be returning to the City of Salt on Thursday, February 6th. And I've got sessions booked through Sunday the 9th, including an overnight guest surrendering himself for an immersive experience with Yours Truly.

If you would like to get on My calendar, you may send Me a polite email that grabs My attention. I may or may not be checking email while I'm away. If you don't hear back from Me, do send your email again on My return so it's fresh in My inbox - msjulie@juliespanks.com

The most thoughtful and generous subs are the ones I seek. 
I know what I want. And I know My worth.
I am a quality over quantity type of player.
Does this resonate with you?

In 2025, I'll be seeking to expand My roster of personal slaves.
I'm interested in thoughtful and generous humans who live both locally, and afar. Specifically, to perform domestic servitude in Salt Lake City. Accompany Me to events. Provide financial servitude. And travel abroad with a sophisticated Dominant Woman.  

It's going to be a great year for Me. Wish to be apart of My world?
I invite you to impress Me. *wink*

Oh yea, and if you're not following Me on BlueSky Social or IG, you're going to miss out on the vacation, beach, and bikini shots. Just sayin'.

BlueSky Social: https://bsky.app/profile/msjuliespanks.bsky.social

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjuliespanks/

Show Me Your.... Largesse.

I've been spending some time reorganizing at The Mini Manor and I'm running across all kinds of wicked tools, toys, and implements I'd long forgotten about. Twenty one years of collecting and I've amassed an incredible arsenal. You dream about it, I probably own it.

That said, I do have a few things sitting at the top of My Amazon wishlist that I'm pining for. The first is new curtain panels for the sitting room and the library. The current curtains have been hanging for years, they've become somewhat discolored, and I've grown tired of them. If these were waiting in My mailbox, I would be very happy.

Next on the list is a new vacuum. The dungeon sucker-upper finally gave up the ghost. If it happens to come in a bundle with a trusty, new cleaning slave, be sure to add that to the shopping cart, as well.

Third on the list is a set of luggage. In that I travel as much as I do, My luggage takes quite the nonconsensual beating. The present set of suitcases have seen much better days and it is time for a new set. 

There's also some toys that I do not own. As well as some of My very favorite bath salts and skin care. I'll be out of the country for a short while, leaving on Friday morning, and I want to come home to some boxes to open. There is your assignment. Get to it. 

Your credit card statement will simply read Amazon.com and your tributes will be sent to My mailbox. And if you have something that you would like to physically mail Me, My PO Box is as follows:

MJS

406 East 300 South

Suite 1000 / Box 141

Salt Lake City UT 84111 

Are you behind in your training? A few sluts come to mind...

Geographically challenged and unable to serve Me in the flesh?

Enjoy what I share with you here and wish to show your appreciation?

Do you desire the attention of a Woman who knows what She wants? 

I'm looking for discerning gentlepaypigs to clear My entire wishlist and fly with Me to Paris for a Female Led adventure.

Indulge Me. Spoil Me. Shower Me with gifts.

Show Me your largesse. As in, wallet. 

And yes, I do have limited time available for sessions before I take off. If you would like to be considered, you may send Me an email.
Email: msjulie@juliespanks.com