Saturday, February 23, 2019

My Standard Screening Process For All Sessions

Over the years My screening process has been fine-tuned to a straight-forward and simple process that works well for Me.

First, My preferred method of contact is email. Make sure your email is polite and to the point. If it's a long rambling email lacking punctuation and appears to have been sent to All Of The Other Dommes, I simply will not respond.

So you better make your email a goody --

Cause you never get a second chance to make a first impression.

If your email manages to pique My interest, I will respond with My Application For Service. Just ten to twelve basic questions that I expect to be answered in an honest and concise manner.

If I like what I read, I will schedule a phone consultation at a time that works for both of us where we can talk more about the possibility, details, answer your questions and book a session based on our compatibility.

I enjoy having a little time to prepare mentally, physically and even logistically for a session. Which is another reason I am rarely available for same-day sessions.

Please make the effort to plan your play time in advance so I have the opportunity to thoughtfully plot our time together. If you wish to create lasting memories, that is. (aka Jackoff Material).

Not to mention, it's just plain respectful. And respect is sexy AF.

I realize it may be easy for you to pull out your...wallet.
But I prefer to play with those that pay attention. Got it?

Email Me at:

Thursday, February 21, 2019

Speak With Yours Truly on Niteflirt

Have you ever wanted to hear what My voice sounds like?

Are there some kinky questions that you are burning to ask Me?

Desire to talk to someone who understands your dark fantasy?

Wish to discuss a possible session before committing yourself?

Want to tell Me in detail exactly what you pine for....?

In My extra time, you may find Me available for kinky conversation and salacious phone sessions on Niteflirt. On the phone, we can talk about anything we want to. No matter how dirty or just plain factual.

Because I am a "lifestyler", I speak with a lot of people from all over the world who want to talk to a Dominant Woman with actual real-time experience in the lifestyle and BDSM community.

Being a pro Domme is something I continue to do (after 15+ years) because I love it and, frankly, I am very good at it. It is a natural extension of My daily routine and not just a Day Job for Me.

Interested? Give Me a call.

Click the link on the right side panel or dial 1-800-TO-FLIRT.
My extension is 02403288. $2.19 per minute.
Charges appear discreetly on your statement as 'NF Services'.

If I do not appear to be available, just send Me an email to schedule a time that works for both of us.

Monday, February 18, 2019

CBT, Over My Knee or Bound Tightly?

In Salt Lake City with some available time on My hands this week.
And you know what that old book tells us about "Idle Hands...."

If you've had the pleasure of serving Me previously and would like to submit yourself to Me again, you may send your request via email or ring My phone at a reasonable hour.

If you are new-to-Me and would like to discuss the possibility of a session, you may send Me your request in an email. I will respond, typically within 24-48 hours, with My Application For Service.

Please note - I am rarely to never available for same-day sessions.

As the name implies, I am a spanking expert, disciplinarian and corporal punishment enthusiast. Though I am quite skilled and do enjoy a plethora of other kinky activities, as well. Activities such as bondage, cbt, nipple play, sensual domination, humiliation, cross-dressing, medical play, electrical play, sounds, flogging, caning, whipping, foot worship and so much more. 

I own a private, sexy, clean and discreet play space downtown where you can let your inhibitions run free. Or while on My leash. *smile*

So, what are you waiting for?

My email:

Saturday, February 16, 2019

Rope Bondage (And More) With Miss Mina Hart

Do you enjoy rope bondage?

Want to learn more about the art of rope bondage?

My dear friend and rope bondage enthusiast Miss Mina Hart is visiting Salt Lake through the 23rd of February and offering sessions to sincere individuals and couples from My private play space.

Based in Denver, Colorado, Miss Mina conducts Her professional sessions there at Pavlovia Denver. She is also skilled in many areas besides rope bondage. For a more complete bio, please click here.

If you're interested in discussing the possibility of a session with Miss Mina while She is visiting, send Me an email and I'll put you in touch.

My email:

Thursday, February 14, 2019

Serve Me Apres Ski in Salt Lake City

I have safely returned to the Land of Zion after another lovely trip to My beloved former hometown where we anxiously awaited a crippling "Snowpocolypse" that never transpired. I was able, however, to do some fabulous shopping, some eating at some delicious restaurants and I also got to hang out with some of My best Lady-friends.

And, of course, I made time to catch up with some of My most devoted slaves, spankos and submissives. It was truly delightful.
I've said before and I'll say it again, I am grateful to have such pleasing, engaged, gracious, authentic humans that offer Me their gift of submission, over and over and over. I digress....

Meanwhile, it's ski season here in Utah!!

I just love this photo so much and wanted to share it with you.
No, it's not Me. But it brings a smile to My face and its on topic.

I'm told some of the best powder can be found here in Utah. And the man on the television tells Me that we currently have some of the best snow pack in the nation. I don't ski anymore but I used to.
Now I prefer to curl up with a good book and relax while sipping a hot toddy in front of a roaring fire and a kitty cat on My lap.

If you enjoy skiing, then you know -- its an expensive hobby.

Much like skiing, BDSM is an expensive (adrenaline-fueled/filled) hobby. Similar to scuba diving, or golf in a fancy location, taking the wheel of a race car or fast boat, or skydiving or flying an airplane.

I like to think a good session is like a Michelin Star Dining Experience.

Or as Auntie Midori says "BDSM is child and joyous play with adult sexual privilege and cool toys" and "Cops & Robbers with Sex".

If you would like to serve Me, My tribute is what it is because you are getting what you pay for - My experience, My skill level, access to My luxurious play space and all of My toys, My professional manner of conducting business from answering your email to negotiating and orchestrating the scene to cleaning and care of My implements and so on.

I take great pride in being a professional Dominant and I look forward to meeting you, training you, and molding you into being a better slave. Join Me for a little while? -

Finally, it is Valentines Day. If you'd like to spoil Me click here.

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Deep Inside Portland til 2/12

I'm deep inside My former beloved hometown of Portland til Tuesday the 12th. If you've waited to book a session, I'm afraid it's too late. My session schedule is completely full.

My next visit will be in June or July. Stay tuned here for more.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Salt Lake City Sessions

This probably goes without saying but just to clear up any confusion - when I am not out gallivanting or on the road traveling, I conduct My sessions gleefully at will in My hometown of Salt Lake City.

Sessions in Salt Lake are always an option for qualified candidates with at least 24 hours notice. Yes, this is My life. But A) it's not like I'm just sitting around waiting for you to call Me; and B) when it's 15 degrees outside, it does take a little time to warm the dungeon.
After all, I do want you to be comfortable while I am tormenting you.

And when I say qualified candidate, I am referring to those that have had the pleasure of serving Me already. Or those who pique My interest via My application process.

I like to play any day of the week. I am more of a morning person though so I typically like to begin as early as 11am or as late as say, 9pm. As I've mentioned before, I'm a quality-over-quantity player and I seek a connection of some sort before I allow just anyone to serve Me. If I feel as if we aren't a good fit, I will let you know. I do not wish to waste any one's time or money. Not to mention, My intuition has never steered Me wrong. Ever.

I have My very own discreet, clean and well-located space. It homes some of My massive equipment collection in an alluring, safe, sexy environment where you may surrender control and submit yourself to My experienced hands, sublime wit and devastating bod.

Give it up, boy.