Wednesday, July 1, 2020

ISO Vacuum & Vacuum Slave

What are the chances that both My Dyson and My iRobot vacuum would take a shit at the same time. Yep, that's right. Both My vacuum and My vacuum slave (aka the iRobot) decided that they'd had enough and quit working on the same day. So now I need some new toys. And I'm not talking about the Fun Kinda Toys. *pout/sigh*

If you are so inclined, I went ahead and added a couple of replacements to My Amazon wishlistShort of coming over and vacuuming My home yourself on a regular basis, it's a gesture that I would greatly appreciate each and every week. Or you can just send Me monies via PayPal:

Note: that gmail address is for PayPal payments, tributes and gifts only. Any and all other correspondence should be addressed to My general inbox:

Saturday, June 27, 2020

Phone Play & Zoom & PayPal Gifts

Hello perverts,

I trust you've all been staying out of trouble.
After all, it has been somewhat difficult to find trouble.
I know some states had loosened restrictions allowing for some glory holes to open but I'm afraid they may close again and we will have to come up with other creative ways of filling and fulfilling your desires.

We will and I can help. Schedule a phone session with Yours Truly.
Email Me for more details and to schedule:

Interested in a session via Zoom where I can see your progress?
Email Me for more information:

And finally, for those of you who have asked recently and in the past, I am now accepting tributes and gifts via PayPal. You've inquired in the past about this. You've been wanting to send a little something to help make ends meet month to month. Perhaps you have extra and wish to share. And thank you.
Send your gift to My PayPal address:

I've updated My Amazon wishlist if you like to indulge Me that way.
Your credit card statement reads and your gift is se

So go on. Reach out. Indulge Me. Surprise Me.

What are you waiting for? *wink*

Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Do You Suffer From Rhabdophilia?

Q: What is Rhabdophilia?  Pronounced: rab-doe-feel-ya
A: Rhabdophilia refers to the sexual urges, preferences and fantasies involving being beaten. More specifically, being flogged.

If you've had the pleasure of serving Me, you'd know that I have a fondness for seductive flogging and other impact play - spanking, slapping, punching, a slow and sexy percussive caning and such.

The implement is merely the conduit, the tool, for the energy that I wish to pass from My body to your body when I am beating on you. Sometimes it's a flogger. And sometime's it's My hand.

Not to be confused with the interests of those of a spankophile. A spanko is only interested in spanking. And no other form of play.

Think you suffer from rhabdophilia? I'd love to hear from you.
Please send Me an email:
And let Me know if I can share your story or experience here.

Thursday, June 4, 2020

I Know You Miss Me & SLC RT Sessions

And I miss you, too.

I miss everything that human touch, real-time sessions and the weight that true power exchange brings when we are together.
And it does not bring Me pleasure to tell you that it's going to be a while longer before I am able to offer in-person sessions again.

In the name of My own personal health and the health and safety of you and all of My other supplicants, I request that you exercise patience during this time. Safety is always of utmost importance. Especially when it comes to living or dying.

To My established clientele: stay tuned here for service opportunities and session possibilities in a couple few months as I feel more comfortable about the situation and can set up some personal protocols to adhere to. If we have yet to meet, you're going to have to wait.

Have you bookmarked My blog? Do you check it every now and then?
It is here where you're going to be updated of what's going on in My world and exactly when I'll have the new space up and running, after the pandemic is calmed much much more. Again, be patient.

Wish to speak on the phone? I offer phone sessions.
Just scroll down to the next post to find out how.

Wish to indulge Me and put a smile on My face? I love gifts.
My Amazon wishlist link HERE. Choose something special or just send an egift card and let Me do the shopping. Your statement reads simply as and your gift is sent directly to Me.
Egift cards are sent immediately to My inbox. Currently, Whole Foods and Amazon gift cards are preferred.

Do you miss Me? Email Me and let Me know.
My email:

Sunday, May 31, 2020

Phone Sessions To Stay Connected Are Essential

I've been offering phone sessions for over 15 years. But never have they been so lovely, thoughtful and personal. Seems like you all just need someone to talk to right now. And I'd love for it to be Me.

I always enjoy talking about the dirty, kinky, naughty stuff. You can tell Me about your darkest fantasies. Nothing is taboo over the phone and nothing will phase Me - I've heard it all. So if you feel the need to confess your sins to someone other than your clergyman, I'm here to listen with open ears.

Some phone calls are educational. As in, you have questions, and I have answers. I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a very long time and I have a plethora of information. I've taught classes and workshops from coast to coast of an array of topics. From chastity to cuckholding to 24/7 relationships to whipping, I am basically a walking BDSM encyclopedia. Ask Me anything.

Calls from My loyal slaves and submissives are always a delight. Those with whom I've known for years and have a relationship, of sorts. Since real-time sessions are out right now, I love to hear from My pets and know that they are safe and healthy.

Want to get to know Me? I encourage you to take your time and read through My blog here. It's a free glimpse into My journey as a Domme.

Want to speak with Me? Pick up the phone. I typically use Niteflirt.
Click on the 'Call Now' button on the right side panel and follow the prompts. It's totally anonymous for you to call and just $2.19 per minute. Charges appear on your statement discreetly as NF Services.

Or if you prefer, I also accept tribute for phone sessions via e-gift cards. Email Me for more information:

What are you waiting for? Don't be alone. Pick up the phone.

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Leather & Latex & Lace & All The Sexiest Garb

In the last few years, unless I have a specific clothing request for a session, I wear whatever I feel like wearing on that particular day. Sometimes I'll have a corset enthusiast, a leather aficionado, a latex lover or a boot fetishist. I love them all. I also seem to attract many pantyhose and stocking fans. Maybe cause I love them too. But if there is no explicit wish or desire expressed, I do as I please.

When I'm choosing something to wear for a session, since I adore sexy footwear so much, My outfit will typically begin with My footwear. High heels or boots - what will it be? When it comes to My clothing, I adore wearing spandex. Maybe you've noticed? It's soft, stretchy and feels so sexy, Spandex leggings accentuate My lean and muscular legs. A tight spandex pencil skirt is always a win. And on top, something low cut and lace or sheer to highlight My bountiful breasts.

Occasionally, there are sessions that call for My starched white nurses uniform or a power suit complete with tie. And every now and then I have a request for Daisy Dukes (cut off jean shorts) and a tank top.

Back in the day, I used to wear a lot of latex. And I miss it terribly.
I miss dressing up. Period.

In fact, when this is all over, if you are lucky enough to schedule a session with Yours Truly, I'm gonna be dressed to the 9's. Every single time. Seriously. I cannot wait to get back into some super sexy garb that will make your mouth drop and drool.

You aren't even ready.

You aren't even ready....

Monday, May 25, 2020

Pandemic Blues & Blue Balls

In My almost 17 years of being a professional Dominatrix, this is the most Time Off or Down Time I've ever been forced to take.
Non-consensual Down Time, that is.

This pandemic and Stay At Home recommendation has Me really missing My colorful world that I carefully curated, built and created.

Like you, I never saw it coming nor could I have anticipated this new normal or the world we are living in now. I'm hurting on many fronts - I miss physical touch and that feeling that intense BDSM sessions provide. I miss you, My devoted submissives and slaves with whom I've been selectively cultivating and building relationships with. I miss the powerful dynamic and the finer nuances of our Dominant and submissive exchanges and those muscles that we are able to flex during our sessions together. I miss My toys and implements.
And I miss making you moan in ecstasy.

Like you - My balls are blue.

I'm not gonna lie, I miss the regular income. Things are tight. Fortunately, in My 17 years I have managed to save a small cushion. But I miss the power that comes with receiving a generous tribute in exchange for My expertise, My energy and My time. 

I'm enjoying the check-in emails and the gift cards that some of you have sent. Especially the Whole Foods cards as groceries are essential. Not to mention they deliver them to My house.

I want to be able to tell you this will all be over soon. But I can't.
Until then, know that I miss you. And I am here for you. Virtually.
Feel free to send Me an email. Or we can schedule a time to catch up on the phone. Yes, really.

For now, I'm taking some online classes, doing some painting and looking forward to the warmer weather we are about to receive. What are you doing to pass the time?

My email: