Sunday, May 31, 2020

Phone Sessions To Stay Connected Are Essential

I've been offering phone sessions for over 15 years. But never have they been so lovely, thoughtful and personal. Seems like you all just need someone to talk to right now. And I'd love for it to be Me.

I always enjoy talking about the dirty, kinky, naughty stuff. You can tell Me about your darkest fantasies. Nothing is taboo over the phone and nothing will phase Me - I've heard it all. So if you feel the need to confess your sins to someone other than your clergyman, I'm here to listen with open ears.

Some phone calls are educational. As in, you have questions, and I have answers. I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a very long time and I have a plethora of information. I've taught classes and workshops from coast to coast of an array of topics. From chastity to cuckholding to 24/7 relationships to whipping, I am basically a walking BDSM encyclopedia. Ask Me anything.

Calls from My loyal slaves and submissives are always a delight. Those with whom I've known for years and have a relationship, of sorts. Since real-time sessions are out right now, I love to hear from My pets and know that they are safe and healthy.

Want to get to know Me? I encourage you to take your time and read through My blog here. It's a free glimpse into My journey as a Domme.

Want to speak with Me? Pick up the phone. I typically use Niteflirt.
Click on the 'Call Now' button on the right side panel and follow the prompts. It's totally anonymous for you to call and just $2.19 per minute. Charges appear on your statement discreetly as NF Services.

Or if you prefer, I also accept tribute for phone sessions via e-gift cards. Email Me for more information:

What are you waiting for? Don't be alone. Pick up the phone.

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Leather & Latex & Lace & All The Sexiest Garb

In the last few years, unless I have a specific clothing request for a session, I wear whatever I feel like wearing on that particular day. Sometimes I'll have a corset enthusiast, a leather aficionado, a latex lover or a boot fetishist. I love them all. I also seem to attract many pantyhose and stocking fans. Maybe cause I love them too. But if there is no explicit wish or desire expressed, I do as I please.

When I'm choosing something to wear for a session, since I adore sexy footwear so much, My outfit will typically begin with My footwear. High heels or boots - what will it be? When it comes to My clothing, I adore wearing spandex. Maybe you've noticed? It's soft, stretchy and feels so sexy, Spandex leggings accentuate My lean and muscular legs. A tight spandex pencil skirt is always a win. And on top, something low cut and lace or sheer to highlight My bountiful breasts.

Occasionally, there are sessions that call for My starched white nurses uniform or a power suit complete with tie. And every now and then I have a request for Daisy Dukes (cut off jean shorts) and a tank top.

Back in the day, I used to wear a lot of latex. And I miss it terribly.
I miss dressing up. Period.

In fact, when this is all over, if you are lucky enough to schedule a session with Yours Truly, I'm gonna be dressed to the 9's. Every single time. Seriously. I cannot wait to get back into some super sexy garb that will make your mouth drop and drool.

You aren't even ready.

You aren't even ready....

Monday, May 25, 2020

Pandemic Blues & Blue Balls

In My almost 17 years of being a professional Dominatrix, this is the most Time Off or Down Time I've ever been forced to take.
Non-consensual Down Time, that is.

This pandemic and Stay At Home recommendation has Me really missing My colorful world that I carefully curated, built and created.

Like you, I never saw it coming nor could I have anticipated this new normal or the world we are living in now. I'm hurting on many fronts - I miss physical touch and that feeling that intense BDSM sessions provide. I miss you, My devoted submissives and slaves with whom I've been selectively cultivating and building relationships with. I miss the powerful dynamic and the finer nuances of our Dominant and submissive exchanges and those muscles that we are able to flex during our sessions together. I miss My toys and implements.
And I miss making you moan in ecstasy.

Like you - My balls are blue.

I'm not gonna lie, I miss the regular income. Things are tight. Fortunately, in My 17 years I have managed to save a small cushion. But I miss the power that comes with receiving a generous tribute in exchange for My expertise, My energy and My time. 

I'm enjoying the check-in emails and the gift cards that some of you have sent. Especially the Whole Foods cards as groceries are essential. Not to mention they deliver them to My house.

I want to be able to tell you this will all be over soon. But I can't.
Until then, know that I miss you. And I am here for you. Virtually.
Feel free to send Me an email. Or we can schedule a time to catch up on the phone. Yes, really.

For now, I'm taking some online classes, doing some painting and looking forward to the warmer weather we are about to receive. What are you doing to pass the time?

My email:

Monday, April 20, 2020

Happy Monday & Checking In

Happy Monday, perverts, friends and followers ~

I didn't realize just how long it had been since I last posted, and I assure you, I am still alive. Bored as hell and way overdue for Femme Maintenance (i.e. manicures, pedicures, haircuts, facials, waxing etc) but still here. Maybe you thought I'd faded away into the abyss of Netflix & You Tube videos. And if you did, you'd be right.

Then I realized, if you are not keeping up with Me personally, you are out of the loop on the play space transition. This whole COVID thing began at the time of transition and because I know people, I was privy to information that ultimately led to Me holding off on signing all necessary paperwork. And boy, I'm glad I did. Otherwise, I'd be sitting in an empty dungeon. And paying for it. All by Myself.

So, I am awaiting more information and Staying At Home until further notice. I'll try and be better about keeping you updated. Trust Me, when I have something juicy to share, I will be sharing it.

So, what exactly have I been doing? - I've been binging a lot of television series. And reading from the stack of books I keep bedside. Cooking every meal from scratch and baking for My neighbors. Switching out My seasonal closets and donating clothes to the women's shelter. Polishing My silver and updating some of My jewelry collection, thanks to a few of your generous Etsy egift cards. Going for walks in My hood. Trying to catch some Vitamin D when the sun is shining. And getting My hands dirty outside in My garden, planting All The Things. And dare I say, the yard looks amazing.

I am still offering phone sessions on Niteflirt and via other avenues. If you'd like to discuss the possibility of scheduling a phone session, send Me an email. Phone sessions are whatever you want them to be - I am happy to dominate you from the comfort of your bedroom floor. Or if you'd rather an intimate discussion with an experienced Woman in the BDSM lifestyle, I love those calls too.

Today is 4/20 and I will be celebrating outside in the lovely sunshine.

What are you doing to pass the time? Send Me an email with an update on you. Yes, YOU!  If we've met in real time or you are just an avid reader, I want to hear from you. Introduce yourself.

My email:

Do take care of yourself. And be kind to others. That's an order.

Friday, March 27, 2020

More Masturbating & Phone Sessions on Niteflirt

As you may have guessed, it's taking Me a little longer to settle in on a new space and begin to offer sessions than I had originally hoped or expected. But then, who the fuck could have expected this mess?

For everyone's safety and health, including My own, I am not meeting with anyone face to face for an indefinite amount of time. It could be one month. It may be two more. IMHO, I think it depends on how serious we all take this pandemic over the next couple of weeks.

What can you do as you Shelter In Place? = Masturbate Every Day
It's good for you!! Orgasms relieve stress and release endorphins and the much needed love hormone oxytocin. And let's face it - these are some pretty stressful times. So, I am ordering you all to masturbate more often. Make time for yourself. Consider it Self Care.

You can call Me on the telephone. I use Niteflirt for phone sessions.
If for whatever reason you are not able to use NF you can email Me for other options. I do want to stay connected with you through these times of isolation. You are not alone. Pick up the phone and call Me.

Or better yet, schedule a time that works for both of us.
That way you will have All Of My Attention. *wink*
My email:

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Short Leashes Vs. Social Distancing

So much to catch you up on, but I'll ask you to be patient with Me as the last few weeks have been crazy to say the least. Stay tuned here on My blog for a longer and more formal update about My current situation and more importantly, the situation of the nation and world. And probably some other fun and kinky stuff too.

Don't stray too far...

Also, in an effort to stay even more connected, I'm going to be devoting more time to this blog and posting for you more often.
I also plan on spending more time available on NiteFlirt. I offer phone sessions of all types, from mild to wild. It's yet another way you can stay connected with Me through this time of isolation. You shouldn't feel lonely when you have Me to call and talk (dirty) to.
So give Me a call or better yet, schedule a time with Me that works for both of us. Hit the 'Call Now' button on the right panel. Or email Me at to schedule a call.

Get closer...

During this super boring quarantine situation I've been filling My Amazon wishlist with all kinds of kinky, sexy, interesting and useful things that I'm pining for. Go on, indulge Me. Choose something special that catches your eye. Or just send an e-gift card and let Me do the shopping. Your credit card statement is discreetly earmarked as and your gift(s) are mailed directly to Yours Truly. Please remember to include a note along with your offering(s) so I know the gift is from you. Unless you wish to remain anonymous. Finally, if you've thoughtfully sent something in the last two-three weeks, I've been away but I'll be checking My mailbox this week.

I'll be back shortly. Until then, I'll keep you on a short virtual leash...

Thursday, February 27, 2020

Where Have I Been & Portland Sessions

I know, you've missed Me. And you're probably wondering where I am and what's going on with Me and My new play space.

Unfortunately, I was the victim in a car accident. Not to worry, I'm just banged up and not broken so for that I am grateful. But My car is totaled and the recovery process is definitely taking longer than I anticipated. Which means My body needs more time to heal. Which means you won't be seeing Me for a little while longer.

I will not be accepting any new-to-Me clients until I am completely healed and the dungeon move is complete. Think Spring.

For those who have already had the pleasure of serving Me and are currently in training, stay tuned for some opportunities.

For the next week, I will be off the grid. Taking a deep dive into a week of relaxation. I'm also leaving the laptop behind - so all emails will be addressed upon My return.

Portland Reminder: I will be in town 3/15 to 3/20 with limited time available for sessions. If you think you'd like to play, send Me an email. I'll get back to you next week.

Want Me to know you are thinking of Me? Send Me a card, gift or gift card. I also adore receiving letters from doting submissives.

400 East 300 South 
Box 141
Salt Lake City UT 84111